Anger and it's length

Angerand resentment are the embylical cords that keep us tied to the perpetrator of the pain.
It keeps us tied up and bound to live in the present or to have a future.
Forgiveness is the scissor that cuts that cord. You may never forget the act.
You can however cut the cord that ties you to that hurt. You will never be truely
free from the person who hurt you until you do. Even decades later they still
control you because the hurt still makes you react in rage due to the lack
of protection you wanted then. You will never relate freely or as God would have you untilyou forgive that person who controlled you then.
YOU MUST FORGIVE SO THAT YOU CAN LIVE. THIS WILL MEAN ADMITTING
THAT YOU ARE GIVING UP ALL HOPE OF A BETTER PAST SO THAT YOU MAY
HAVE A FUTURE.
May God bless you all